episode twenty-nine: DIY Sensory Tools

Have you ever tried to find OT tools or equipment to allow your sensory dysregulated or intensely psycho-motor child to modulate themselves at home?  Aren't they ridiculously expensive?!?  In this episode, Heather and Jon share hacks and DIY strategies that they've used to create their very own indoor OT playground.  Perfect for gifted, ASD, SPD, even neurotypical kids!  Listen along as you learn ways to be kind to your wallet and still get the tools you and your child need.

BONUS!!  Leave us a review on iTunes and you'll be entered to win an Amazon giftcard to help gathering these tools and supplies a "BIT" easier.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Mr. Loverman by Shabba Ranks
     Destination Imagination
     Light Projector (this isn't the one we bought, so it may be better quality, but it's essentially the same type of thing)
     Spinny, Turny Hook Things
     Hammock Swing
     Net Hammock Swing
     peanut ball

And, stay tuned!  We're working on getting some pics of our creations up soon!

episode twenty-eight: interoceptive sense & co-parenting part I

In this episode, Heather & Jon begin to answer a few questions from the Bits.  First, more info about the interoceptive sense and a couple of things that may be helpful if your differently wired (gifted, Autism, SPD, 2e, etc) kiddo has mixed up interoception.  Also, a discussion about co-parenting, whether living apart or together, and the challenges of parenting together when each parent can be in a very different place with regard to the grief and acceptance process of having a differently wired child.

Mentioned in this episode:
     EMDR (see the brief info on Boorman Counseling.com or for more information or to find a certified EMDR therapist near you, check out emdria.org)

episode twenty-six: family gatherings

It's Thanksgiving 2016 here in the United States, which means there will be big family gatherings, big, big changes in schedules, and potentially big meltdowns.  In this episode, Heather & Jon share ways they're learning to manage these large family gatherings with fringy kids.  Whether your child is gifted, has autism, has spd, or is otherwise differently wired, we'll help you, and your child, survive these crazy times!

Mentioned in this episode:

     To learn about Nesel Packs, and hear our initial review, listen to episode thirteen

      To learn about Liev Schrieber here is his IMDB page http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000630/ 

 

episode twenty-five: education

In this episode, Heather & Jon discuss educating our Fringy Kids.  Gifted, special needs, children with autism or sensory processing disorder have unique needs throughout their lives, and their learning and education is no different.  

Mentioned in this episode:
     The Accountant

episode twenty-four: Sensory Intensity

In this episode, Heather & Jon discuss the hypersensitive sensory systems that many gifted individuals can experience.  We consider strategies to help regulate these crazy sensual experiences of our gifted kiddos and ourselves!

Mentioned in this episode:  
     Engelbert Humperdinck (& his songs - he's still singing!)

episode twenty-three: Sleep!

In this episode, Jon and Heather consider all the ups, downs, ins and outs of sleep!  Many of our Fringy Kids (gifted, ASD, SPD, etc) have sleep issues, which means many Fringy Parents have sleep issues, too.  Hopefully this episode will give you a few extra ideas on ways for everyone in the house to catch a few more zzz's.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Together 24/7 Podcast
     Relax Melodies App

episode twenty-two: Collaborative Problem-Solving

In this episode, Heather & Jon discuss a strategy that helps find solutions to repeat problematic behaviors.  And as an added bonus, Jon even serenades us all for a bit!  But, please don't let that keep you from listening.  ;)  And please note, no children were harmed or exploded during the making of this podcast.

Mentioned in this episode:
     The Explosive Child by Dr. Ross Greene

We love this approach so much, that we want you to have a chance to win your very own copy of Dr. Greene's book!  Just share a memorable explosion from your household (either yours or your child's!) and you'll be entered to win!  You can share your story by emailing us at contact@thefringybit.com or by commenting on the Fringy Bit facebook page.

episode twenty-one: Getting Breaks and Couple Stuff

In this episode of the Fringy Bit podcast, Jon and Heather discuss self-care and couple-care.  How do we make sure our relationships remain strong and allow for time away from our Fringy (gifted, autistic, SPD, 2e, differently wired) kiddos?!

Mentioned in this episode:
     Wisconsin Association for the Talented and Gifted (WATG) 2016 conference

Bonus Bit #3

In this Bonus Bit, Heather and Jon discuss the question of twice exceptionality - how do we get our 2e kids identified and connected with the appropriate services.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Hoagies' Gifted
     Misdiagnosis & Dual Diagnosis of Gifted Children & Adults
    

Not mentioned in the episode, but another valuable resource:  
     2enewsletter
 

episode eighteen - for the days you just don't want to be a fringy parent

We all have days when we'd simply like to "tag out" of parenting.  In this episode, Heather and Jon talk about one of those days and consider strategies to help those days go as best as possible, or at the very least, to rebound from those days successfully.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Sensory Subscription Box
     Power Poses
     WATG Conference, October 13 & 14, 2016

And don't miss out! This week's contest:
     Do you like to be referred to as a "bit"?  Like us on Facebook, reply to the contest post with either yes, call me a bit!  Or No, we should be called _______, and you'll be entered for our next prize drawing!  You have until Thursday, Sept 29th, 2016 to enter!

episode seventeen - Transitions

If you have a differently wired kiddo, you know that transitions can be difficult.  In this episode, Heather and Jon talk strategies to help manage these transitions more smoothly.

Mentioned in this episode:
     the video games - Journey & Flower
     Journey soundtrack by Austin Wintory

CONTEST!!!
     Leave an informative and inviting review on your favorite podcast player (for iTunes, click here) and you may win a mystery prize.  Reviews need to be posted by Noon CST on Tuesday 9/20/16 to be entered into the contest.  Imagine you have a fringy kid, but are unfamiliar with the Fringy Bit - what would you want to know?  What would help you feel invited into the Fringy Bit Community?  Leave it in a review and you just may win! 

Bonus Bit #2

In this bonus episode, Heather & Jon address a bit's question about finding support.  We explore how to know when more formal support, such a therapy, is warranted, and how to find the right providers.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Listing of State Gifted Associations
     SENG Provider List

Helpful Resources to Learn More about Giftedness, for yourself or to share with your therapist:
     Misdiagnosis and Dual Diagnosis of Gifted Children and Adults
     Living with Intensity
    A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children

episode sixteen - Imaginational Intensity

Join Heather and Jon as they discuss the creative side of gifted kiddos.  In this episode we consider the pros and cons of having intense imaginations and strategies to help manage these creative minds.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Traveler's Notebook
     Nightmares vs Night Terrors
     Ha-Ha, Jonathan Boorman!  I did find a way to make a recorder out of a tube and found it in 10
           seconds on the first search!

episode fifteen - Spirituality

In this episode, Heather and Jon welcome Kelly Lamon, pastor at Woodbury Peaceful Grove United Methodist church to discuss all things spiritual.  Fringy kids, whether gifted, autistic, or other types of differently wired, have unique spiritual needs and this episode considers ways to support them on their quests to answers the big questions of life.

Mentioned in this episode:

     Cozy Phones
     We Stand with Love blog
     contact Kelly at klamon@beingthehope.org

 

episode fourteen - They Just Don't Understand

In this episode, Heather & Jon discuss the reality that family and friends without a differently wired kid, simply don't understand.  Sadly, this can result in well-meaning loved ones making some misguided and unhelpful suggestions or comments.  Listen as Heather and Jon talk through how to deal with this.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Chew Beads
     Chewelry
     "Car Repair - My Own Private Hell" from www.homeschooling2e.com
     Jon would also like it know that he was referring to Ed Harris' character from Apollo 13!  :)

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episode thirteen - the insatiably curious

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In lucky episode number 13, Heather & Jon discuss all things intellectually intense.  Learn strategies to keep your own sanity while you're raising a child who asks questions morning, noon, and night.  Additionally, hear about a fantastic product and a fantastically awful trip to the doctor!

Mentioned in this episode:
     Nesel Pack
     Boorman Counseling