episode twenty-two: Collaborative Problem-Solving

In this episode, Heather & Jon discuss a strategy that helps find solutions to repeat problematic behaviors.  And as an added bonus, Jon even serenades us all for a bit!  But, please don't let that keep you from listening.  ;)  And please note, no children were harmed or exploded during the making of this podcast.

Mentioned in this episode:
     The Explosive Child by Dr. Ross Greene

We love this approach so much, that we want you to have a chance to win your very own copy of Dr. Greene's book!  Just share a memorable explosion from your household (either yours or your child's!) and you'll be entered to win!  You can share your story by emailing us at contact@thefringybit.com or by commenting on the Fringy Bit facebook page.

episode twenty-one: Getting Breaks and Couple Stuff

In this episode of the Fringy Bit podcast, Jon and Heather discuss self-care and couple-care.  How do we make sure our relationships remain strong and allow for time away from our Fringy (gifted, autistic, SPD, 2e, differently wired) kiddos?!

Mentioned in this episode:
     Wisconsin Association for the Talented and Gifted (WATG) 2016 conference

Bonus Bit #3

In this Bonus Bit, Heather and Jon discuss the question of twice exceptionality - how do we get our 2e kids identified and connected with the appropriate services.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Hoagies' Gifted
     Misdiagnosis & Dual Diagnosis of Gifted Children & Adults
    

Not mentioned in the episode, but another valuable resource:  
     2enewsletter
 

episode eighteen - for the days you just don't want to be a fringy parent

We all have days when we'd simply like to "tag out" of parenting.  In this episode, Heather and Jon talk about one of those days and consider strategies to help those days go as best as possible, or at the very least, to rebound from those days successfully.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Sensory Subscription Box
     Power Poses
     WATG Conference, October 13 & 14, 2016

And don't miss out! This week's contest:
     Do you like to be referred to as a "bit"?  Like us on Facebook, reply to the contest post with either yes, call me a bit!  Or No, we should be called _______, and you'll be entered for our next prize drawing!  You have until Thursday, Sept 29th, 2016 to enter!

episode seventeen - Transitions

If you have a differently wired kiddo, you know that transitions can be difficult.  In this episode, Heather and Jon talk strategies to help manage these transitions more smoothly.

Mentioned in this episode:
     the video games - Journey & Flower
     Journey soundtrack by Austin Wintory

CONTEST!!!
     Leave an informative and inviting review on your favorite podcast player (for iTunes, click here) and you may win a mystery prize.  Reviews need to be posted by Noon CST on Tuesday 9/20/16 to be entered into the contest.  Imagine you have a fringy kid, but are unfamiliar with the Fringy Bit - what would you want to know?  What would help you feel invited into the Fringy Bit Community?  Leave it in a review and you just may win! 

Bonus Bit #2

In this bonus episode, Heather & Jon address a bit's question about finding support.  We explore how to know when more formal support, such a therapy, is warranted, and how to find the right providers.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Listing of State Gifted Associations
     SENG Provider List

Helpful Resources to Learn More about Giftedness, for yourself or to share with your therapist:
     Misdiagnosis and Dual Diagnosis of Gifted Children and Adults
     Living with Intensity
    A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children

episode sixteen - Imaginational Intensity

Join Heather and Jon as they discuss the creative side of gifted kiddos.  In this episode we consider the pros and cons of having intense imaginations and strategies to help manage these creative minds.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Traveler's Notebook
     Nightmares vs Night Terrors
     Ha-Ha, Jonathan Boorman!  I did find a way to make a recorder out of a tube and found it in 10
           seconds on the first search!

episode fifteen - Spirituality

In this episode, Heather and Jon welcome Kelly Lamon, pastor at Woodbury Peaceful Grove United Methodist church to discuss all things spiritual.  Fringy kids, whether gifted, autistic, or other types of differently wired, have unique spiritual needs and this episode considers ways to support them on their quests to answers the big questions of life.

Mentioned in this episode:

     Cozy Phones
     We Stand with Love blog
     contact Kelly at klamon@beingthehope.org

 

episode fourteen - They Just Don't Understand

In this episode, Heather & Jon discuss the reality that family and friends without a differently wired kid, simply don't understand.  Sadly, this can result in well-meaning loved ones making some misguided and unhelpful suggestions or comments.  Listen as Heather and Jon talk through how to deal with this.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Chew Beads
     Chewelry
     "Car Repair - My Own Private Hell" from www.homeschooling2e.com
     Jon would also like it know that he was referring to Ed Harris' character from Apollo 13!  :)

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episode thirteen - the insatiably curious

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In lucky episode number 13, Heather & Jon discuss all things intellectually intense.  Learn strategies to keep your own sanity while you're raising a child who asks questions morning, noon, and night.  Additionally, hear about a fantastic product and a fantastically awful trip to the doctor!

Mentioned in this episode:
     Nesel Pack
     Boorman Counseling

episode twelve - Fringy Siblings from a Grown-Ups Perspective

Here's the second part of our 2 episode series on being a sibling of a Fringy Kid.  In this episode, Heather & Jon are joined by Katie Robinson, licensed mental health therapist with Catalyst Mental Health in Bloomington, MN.  Katie also has the distinction of being both a parent of a Fringy Kid, and a sibling of a Fringy Kid.

Mentioned in this episode:

Catalyst Mental Health
Book - Raising a Sensory Smart Child
Book - The Out of Sync Child has Fun

episode eleven - Fringy Siblings from a Kid's Perspective

Siblings of Fringy Kids have their own unique needs and experiences.  This episode is the first of a 2-part series in which Heather & Jon interview Fringy Sibs.  In this one, we interview Cub, who shares his perspective as an 11 year old big brother to a KBear who has sensory processing disorder and traits of autism.

Mentioned in this episode:
Zones of Regulation
Aikido

episode ten - guilt

The Fringy Bit welcomes Brian Burns of Burns Family Consulting to the podcast!  Brian is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists and talks to Heather and Jon about ways to manage guilt effectively.

Mentioned in the Show:
     Burns Family Consulting offices in Hudson, WI & Woodbury, MN; burnstherapy@gmail.com
     My Name is Asher Lev
     There is an upside to mosquitoes . . . learn what it is here

“Everything will be ok in the end. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end.”
— Anonymous

episode nine - Why won't you just SIT STILL!!!

This episode focuses on the joys and challenges of psychomotor intensity.  Heather & Jon will guide you through strategies to help you tolerate (and appreciate) your constantly moving fringy kid (gifted, autism, spd, 2e, differently wired).

Mentioned in this episode:
     101 Homeschool Ideas, Brian Ricks (episode 85 for dinner game ideas)
     Therapy Shoppe (for fidgets & more!)
     Cosmic Yoga
     goNoodle Brain Breaks
     SENG Misdiagnosis Initiative

episode eight - This is NOT a vacation!

Inspired by a friend in the Fringy Bit Community, this episode is dedicated to discussing, problem solving, and finding the humor in vacationing with our fringy families.

gifted, autism, differently wired, 2e, twice exceptional, spd, parenting, support, family, vacation

Mentioned in this episode: 
     What are Social Stories
     Computer programs, apps, websites to help create Social Stories
 

episode seven - self-compassion

As parents, we are often our own worst critics.  Listen to Heather and Jon discuss the practice and benefits of self-compassion.  Parenting our fringy kids (gifted, autistic, special needs, spd, twice exceptional, differently wired), gives us many opportunities to practice the art of self-compassion!

Mentioned in this episode:
     Dr. Kristin Neff's Work on Self-Compassion

 

episode six - Intensity

Polish psychologist, Kazimierz Dabrowski, identified 5 innate intensities (he called them overexcitabilities - listen to the episode to hear why we call them intensities instead) that are common among gifted individuals.  In this episode, we introduce these intensities and continue to explore the different wired-ness of gifted individuals.

Mentioned in this episode:
     Kazimierz Dabrowski
     Living with Intensity (book)
     Talking with Hands & Learning (article)